OK,
now you've heard my story up to this time, now I'd like to hear yours!
Assuming
that some of you may have either been caught by your S.O. while dressed or,
by some stroke of luck, have been requested to dress for you significant
other, how did YOU feel the first time she saw you dressed? Did she offer
any criticism - either good or bad? Did she offer any assistance?
Did
the two of you come to any compromises regarding your dressing (frequency,
completeness, styles, etc.)?
Anything
else you'd like to share with others about coming out?
If
you decide to submit your personal story to
me to add to the collection I hope to publish here, please email it to me. If
you find you need to make corrections after you've sent me your story, please
send those and I'll make the requested changes the next time I do a site update.
Not
too long ago one of my best friends and I were talking about things we don't
often see on the net concerning other sisters. My favorite things to hear are
the TRUE stories detailing how a sister came out to her significant other and
what the results were. Some of these stories really are touching and will pull
at your heart's strings, some are horror stories, some start out having you
think that the world crashed down around the story teller but turn out to be
really fantastic, the list could go on and on.
There
are quite a few web sites with CD stories available, however most of those are
fiction and fantasy type stories. What is far more useful to CDs who are
considering coming out to their spouses, or those who already have and are
having a rough time with it, would be REAL LIFE true stories by REAL CDs. With
this in mind I would like to solicit your story, if you have one you'd like to
tell. You don't need to be a literary genius to submit your true story and don't
worry about spelling or grammatical errors. Your submission will be proof read,
spell checked, and grammatical errors corrected as necessary. Tell it from your
heart just as you remember it happening. The one criteria which is required
(aside from the story being true) is to keep it CLEAN. By clean, I mean leave
the profanity out of it and spare us from any graphic descriptions of sexual
acts. If sexual acts are involved in the story, they can be described tactfully
if it is absolutely necessary to make the story clear. Otherwise please leave
those references out. One other thing you would probably want to consider is the
use of alias names rather than the actual ones. This preserves the anonymity of
both you, your spouse, and anyone else who may be identified in the story.
If
you are considering sending a story to me to be included in the collection I
hope to publish (and I really hope you are) here are a few ideas to get you
started as you put thoughts into print. Don't limit yourself to just these ideas
since I'm sure you have a lot of your own.
After
you had made up your mind to come out to your wife, what preparations did
you make and for how long?
Did
you carry through with your first attempt, or did you "chicken
out" (this is nothing to be ashamed of) and decide to try again later?
What
was the 'mood' like when you began your conversation?
What
was the 'mood' like after you told her?
What
was her initial reaction, and what was your answer to this reaction?
If
you could go back and change something you did or said, what would it be?
After
you had revealed your secrets to her, did you sense a feeling of relief or
that a load had been lifted off of your shoulders?
Were
subsequent (later date) additional discussions suggested or planned?
If so, how much later?
Did
your wife ask if you had pictures of yourself dressed up and did you show
them to her if she asked to see them?
What
was her reaction to your pictures, or (extremely unlikely scenario here) if
she asked to see you dressed in
person, what was her reaction when she saw you for the very first time?
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